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“Stop Cooking And Cleaning For A Man, It Doesn’t Make You A Wife, Develop Yourselves”– Blessing Okoro Advises



A well-known relationship expert, Blessing Okoro has dished out words of advice about relationships and directed it mostly to young ones .

The motivational speaker, who always share videos with her followers on Instagram has dropped another clip, and this time around she channelled the advice to couples especially ladies.

According to Blessing, she made women to understand that developing themselves is more important than relying on cooking and doing house chores as what qualifies a woman to be a good wife.

In the recent video, she advised women to know the importance of self-development than doing all the necessary things that are not really valid to men just to please them which in some cases may not end well therefore making the woman not to achieve anything in the relationship but lost.

In her words;

“Dear women, cooking and house chores does not make you a wife, go and develop yourselves, house chores, cooking for him, washing for him, doing all those busy bodies does not make you a wife, you need to develop yourselves.”

“Marriage is not slavery, marriage is for companionship and when you are companioned with somebody, you need to learn how to communicate. It is you women that has made a lot of men turn you to slaves, because many of you women are sacred of self-development.”

“A lot of men have dumped you today and you are wondering why in as much as you have been cleaning and washing for them, it’s because they have outgrown you, a man can now afford to pay for those things that you do for him.”

“What would you hold on to if a man decides to let you go? But if you develop yourself, you empower yourself and you become independent.”

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