Popular Nollywood actor and lawyer, Kenneth Arinzechukwu Okonkwo has admonished men to be concerned about the kind of woman, they get into relationship with or marry.
According to the ace Nigerian actor, single men should stay away from ladies who undermine their efforts and make them feel like they are not trying enough as well as those who don’t believe in the dignity of labour but think that their veejayjay can give them more.
The actor even went ahead to say that it’s better to have a lady who is a stark illiterate, does petty trade and values your efforts than to be with a sophisticated one, who doesn’t encourage you but makes you feel like you’re not a man and not doing enough.
Okonkwo took to his Facebook page and wrote;
FOR THE KINGS
To make 200 naira, an okada rider might have to do 4 trips. Even so, his profit will not be 200 naira considering he has to first subtract money for fuel and union dues. 200 naira could be big money depending on the financial capacity of the giver.
See, any woman who doesn’t appreciate the little you give to her is not for you. You will never grow as a man with such a woman in your life. So the earlier you do away with her, the better for your mental health.
It is better to marry a stark illiterate who hawks groundnut and makes a profit of 100 naira than to marry a woman who doesn’t believe in the dignity of labour and who undermines the importance of speaking life into her man.
The problem is not that you don’t give her enough money – and there is no amount of money that will be sufficient for a woman without value. The problem is that you’re wasting your resources and time on the wrong woman.
As a rule of thump, never go out of your way to do what you cannot do for yourself for any woman. It is not love. It is foolishness. A woman who genuinely loves you will not push you beyond your limits. She will respect the efforts you’re making and she’ll encourage your dreams.
If a woman is working for or is involved in a legit hustle for money, she will know the value of money. The moment you meet a girl who believes that her vag*na is the gateway to financial independence, run. If you don’t, that is the beginning of your end.