A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions on social media after she said that culture forbids a woman to kneel before her man to receive an engagement ring.
According to the Facebook user, Chimdiyalyn Ama Ilsona, who stated this via her page, she said that it’s a man’s duty to kneel before his girlfriend and accept an engagement ring and not the woman.
Chimdiyalyn, further advised ladies to desist from such act, adding that if the man can’t be humble enough to kneel then he should be allowed to walk away from the relationship.
In her words;
“Culture forbids a woman to kneel and receive engagement ring…it is the duty of the man to do so…ladies,please decline such.if he can’t kneel then he should go…this is an abuse to our culture and on no condition should a woman kneel to accept a ring from a man… it’s not a show of loyalty but slavery.🙅🚶”
See her post below;
Let A Lawyer Be There Anytime Your Boyfriend Gives You Gifts, So He Should Sign He Wouldn’t Take Back The Gifts After Breakup — Blogger Laura Ikeji Advises Ladies
Blogger and entrepreneur, Laura Ikeji-Kanu has shared her opinion on the current trend of men taking back the gifts they gave to their girlfriends after break up.
Videos are emerging steadily online of men taking back the gifts they gave their lovers after their relationship ended. Only recently, a South African businessman stormed the house, he built for his girlfriend with an excavator and brought it down after his girlfriend broke up with him. Read HERE
In a video Laura shared online, she stated that it is right for women to collect gifts from men and suggested to ladies to get a lawyer just to be there, whenever their boyfriends give them a gift, so the boyfriends can sign that they won’t collect back the gifts even if they broke up.
In her words, she said;
”I feel like it is our right as women to collect gifts….From our husbands and our boyfriends, it our right to collect these gifts.
Now these days that these guys are beginning to collect their gifts back, we need to do something about it. There must be an emergency meeting. We need to do something about it.
My opinion is before you get gifts from these guys, your boyfriend of that moment, I think you should get a pen and paper and get a lawyer because you gat to sign and tell him this gift is mine forever…anything you give me is mine forever regardless of what happened so that these guys will not come and be embarrassing us and disgracing us outside. You gat to sign. If you buy me a car, sign. If you buy me a house, sign so you wouldn’t come and break my house one day”
Watch the video