A Nigerian social media user identified as Daniel Amadi, has generated reactions on social media after his observation on the mentality of an average Nigerian lady towards life and union.
According to Mr Amadi’s opinion, an average Nigerian lady doesn’t really have the drive to work and be rich, she just hopes and prays that she meets a rich guy who desires her for a relationship or better still make her his wife.
Posting via his Facebook account, he wrote;
“The average Nigerian lady’s mentality is not to be rich but to date or marry a rich man…”
See screenshot of his post below;
Amadi’s post generated reactions and counter-reactions from users of the app. While some disagreed with him, claiming it wasn’t a fact, others most especially the male folks totally agreed with him. Below are some comments under the post.
Rekz Ebuka Praise commented
He said average🙄, some of you commenting “not true” “Lie” do have that same mentality just that nobody can see what you think. Simple but truth. Argue with your fingers🙄🙄
Owen Kalu commented
The average mentality of girls in your village is to marry a rich man. .. ode you think every girl is the same
Cynthia Ogbuefi commented
Me that married my own that wasn’t rich, and we are making the money together nko? I didn’t even pray for a rich man, I prayed for a man that would love and respect me, and I got exactly what I prayed for.
Goodboy Ezinwa commented
Pls try and grow with your husband, look for a young man with strength and knowledge, join hands with him and make money with him. Don’t look for already made money.
Empress Emeto Onyinye commented
You’re very stupid. Feel free to come argue your stupidity with me. Let me teach you how to respect women.Idit
Aneke Chiamaka commented
Some of you guys blabbing bitter truth, facts e.t.c, if not for the rich men your sisters married, your family would have remained in abject poverty. Everyone is talking.. Most families depend on their in-laws for survival! Mtchew
Ugochukwu Ohiaogu commented
If a lady is lucky to marry a rich man within her time frame she need to get married fine but let ladies always prepare well to be a help to whoever that will marry them as a lady no certificate, no skills nor business and the father is not rich and she want to marry a rich guy now what qualities does she has to get the rich man
Obiageli Asadu commented
Are you talking about 1980s backwards .
Nwanyi Nimo commented
And u forgot to add that their brothers are happy to hear that their sister married a rich man including her parents too
Prince Ability Abuchi commented
Dats why most of dem nowadays dey rotten 4 their papa house. Make dem dey wait 4 already made naaa😁😁
Kingsley Kene Akanna commented
I don’t know or understand the Nigerian ladies you are talking about, maybe you live in another country that have Nigeria as it’s name.
Oliver Uchenna Nwoka commented
Leave Nigerian Lady alone!
Uche Ezinne commented
Dts not true. If I have the opportunity I would love to make “better money” before settling down
Ebere Fidelia Nwoye commented
Lie ooh e dey hungry me to be richer than some men ooh so just count me out ooh
Emmanuella Chidimma commented
Truth. There’s this joy that comes with making your own money no matter how little.
Goodspeed Val commented
To me.. There is nothing wrong in wanting to marry or date a rich man. Before people start pouncing on me, I will explain why it is okay.
Every person has a different definition of happiness.Just like happiness, every person has a different definition of ideal spouse.Now the biggest problem with people is, they think their definition of happiness and ideal spouse is the only definition. They believe this so much to the point that they ridicule any other definition given by any other person.
If you think that an ideal spouse for you is a rich man, then there is nothing wrong. People will ridicule you for being materialistic, They think that money will go away, money can’t buy happiness and all that crap. But if that is your definition of happiness, then go for it. Whatever you do, there will be people who judge you. So follow your heart.
Now remember this. You have two choices. Follow your heart or follow what others tell you. Now in both cases you might face disappointment just like some people, But I would still ask you to follow your heart. Because at least you will have the satisfaction that you followed your heart, rather than regretting listening to someone else.
Lady Whose Boyfriend Collected Back The Wig, Engagement Ring And Slippers He Gave Her After He Found Her On A Date With Another Man In A Mall Speaks (Video)
The lady whose was humiliated by her fiancé in a viral video has finally narrated her side of the story.
Recall less than a week ago, the lady was on a date with a man at Jabi Lake Mall when her fiancé walked up to where they were sitting, confronted her, then went on to forcefully pull the wig he bought her from her head, her slippers and her engagement ring and zoomed off. Read story HERE
In a new video the victim posted online, she disclosed that her man was wrong to collect all he gave her blaming it on annoyance but she debunked the claim that she was cheating on her fiancé.
She told Nigerians that they should stop labelling her a cheat because she was not caught in a compromising position.
She also appeal to people use the situation to put her into depression as she admitted that she now fully under why people commit suicide out of depression.
Watch the video below.