Okorie Franklin Onyekachi, a Nigerian man on Facebook has advised men to date a lady that their financial level can sustain.
Onyekachi admonished men to go for ladies they can afford to avoid making controversial statement like “all women love money”.
In his opinion, women need to be taken care of and some women are basically expensive to maintain, as such any man who doesn’t have the financial means or doesn’t deem it fit to spend money on such women should stay clear, instead of crying foul.
He concluded by telling men not to generalize the notion that all women love money but rather try and work hard to improve their financial status, because poverty is not good.
Date a lady you can afford, instead of making noise that women love money, you do you love poverty?
His post was welcomed by some users, most especially the ladies while others didn’t agree. A few felt he wasn’t making a point by assuming women are commodities. Here are some comments.
Ugo Ezechi Daniel Anyanwu commented How about a woman taking care and looking after herself. Relationship isn’t a poverty alleviation program
Ogechukwu Enemchukwu commented The same goes for women. Date a man you can afford so you don’t end up buying Aba made shoes to a man that wears Gucci shoes on his birthday.
Ilegbune Ikechukwu Justin commented Just like goods in the market, buy how many girls you can afford, treat the goods how you want.If you hate poverty you work hard and smart to be rich not feeling entitled
Amarachi Jessica commented U are portraying women as commodities one can just buy anyhow he likes abi. Poster i no follow o
Godfrey Okorie commented No body wish for poverty.. But I don’t hustle to be Rich because of girlfriend…. At the same Time you’ve succeeded turning our ladies into a commodity to purchased… Abeg my sister is excluded…
Frank Ikechukwu Anyiam commented Yes no man love poverty but in this our generation all women like money and there nothing like date a woman that you can afford.
Let A Lawyer Be There Anytime Your Boyfriend Gives You Gifts, So He Should Sign He Wouldn’t Take Back The Gifts After Breakup — Blogger Laura Ikeji Advises Ladies
Blogger and entrepreneur, Laura Ikeji-Kanu has shared her opinion on the current trend of men taking back the gifts they gave to their girlfriends after break up.
Videos are emerging steadily online of men taking back the gifts they gave their lovers after their relationship ended. Only recently, a South African businessman stormed the house, he built for his girlfriend with an excavator and brought it down after his girlfriend broke up with him. Read HERE
In a video Laura shared online, she stated that it is right for women to collect gifts from men and suggested to ladies to get a lawyer just to be there, whenever their boyfriends give them a gift, so the boyfriends can sign that they won’t collect back the gifts even if they broke up.
In her words, she said;
”I feel like it is our right as women to collect gifts….From our husbands and our boyfriends, it our right to collect these gifts.
Now these days that these guys are beginning to collect their gifts back, we need to do something about it. There must be an emergency meeting. We need to do something about it.
My opinion is before you get gifts from these guys, your boyfriend of that moment, I think you should get a pen and paper and get a lawyer because you gat to sign and tell him this gift is mine forever…anything you give me is mine forever regardless of what happened so that these guys will not come and be embarrassing us and disgracing us outside. You gat to sign. If you buy me a car, sign. If you buy me a house, sign so you wouldn’t come and break my house one day”
Watch the video