An anonymous lady has cried out bitterly after her boyfriend’s mother whom she went to visit said his son can’t get married to her because she is not prayerful, after many years of being in a relationship.
According to her, she has been dating the guy for two years and ever since they started dating she has never had an opportunity to meet with her boyfriend’s parents because they were based in the village.
She also noted that her boyfriend being the only son among the 6 girls of his family is so lovely and caring and takes good care of her, but what confuses her is the kind of influence his mother has over him concerning making a choice of the kind of wife he wants.
Knowing the family very well as a good Christian home but i never expected them to the extent of making choices for their son, she said.
Read her story below;
I’m currently dating a guy I meant two years back. Since we started the relationship, I haven’t had the opportunity to meet his parents because they are based in the village.
My guy being the one son among 6 ladies is a very good and caring guy; what I don’t really know is the kind of influence his mother has/ or will have on him pertaining to a choice of a wife. I know the family to be churchy kind, but I have been able to pinpoint how far they can go.
The point is this; April last year, my guy started talking about marriage, I kept my cool because as at then, I was still learning how to deal with some part of him that I considered very disturbing; until December when I fully consented to his request.
From then we have been good. I speak with his siblings as occasion demand, including his parents. So, two months ago, he got me to see them in the village and right there, I received a shock of my life. I didn’t know, but in one of the mornings, during the devotion that they do have, his mother Insisted that I should lead them in prayer. I prayed in the way I understood. I didn’t know His mother used that to test me. She called her son behind closed door and told him that he can’t marry me because I won’t become a good prayer wife.
When we returned, my guy didn’t tell me until few weeks ago when we had a little misunderstanding. He blew it at my face and honestly, am really skeptical now because I don’t know if his mind is still me or I should just fine my square root before he breaks my heart. He didn’t just say it, he mocked me, and until now, he hasn’t apologized. I’m truly confused now.
Let A Lawyer Be There Anytime Your Boyfriend Gives You Gifts, So He Should Sign He Wouldn’t Take Back The Gifts After Breakup — Blogger Laura Ikeji Advises Ladies
Blogger and entrepreneur, Laura Ikeji-Kanu has shared her opinion on the current trend of men taking back the gifts they gave to their girlfriends after break up.
Videos are emerging steadily online of men taking back the gifts they gave their lovers after their relationship ended. Only recently, a South African businessman stormed the house, he built for his girlfriend with an excavator and brought it down after his girlfriend broke up with him. Read HERE
In a video Laura shared online, she stated that it is right for women to collect gifts from men and suggested to ladies to get a lawyer just to be there, whenever their boyfriends give them a gift, so the boyfriends can sign that they won’t collect back the gifts even if they broke up.
In her words, she said;
”I feel like it is our right as women to collect gifts….From our husbands and our boyfriends, it our right to collect these gifts.
Now these days that these guys are beginning to collect their gifts back, we need to do something about it. There must be an emergency meeting. We need to do something about it.
My opinion is before you get gifts from these guys, your boyfriend of that moment, I think you should get a pen and paper and get a lawyer because you gat to sign and tell him this gift is mine forever…anything you give me is mine forever regardless of what happened so that these guys will not come and be embarrassing us and disgracing us outside. You gat to sign. If you buy me a car, sign. If you buy me a house, sign so you wouldn’t come and break my house one day”
Watch the video