A Nigerian man identified on Twitter with the username, Chemically combined has shared a thought-provoking opinion on cheating.
The young man with handle @masud_basheer, in his opinion, stated that double dating in a relationship is a rehearsal and a leeway to adultery in marriages.
According to him, those who can’t be faithful to their partners when they are in a relationship will find it very difficult to stay faithful when they eventually get married.
Of recent, there have been increasing cases of infidelity amongst lovers in relationship as well as married couples and daily we see those in relationships and married couples contemplating breaking up their relationships and seeking divorce respectively due to infidelity on the part of one partner.
To the poster, the infidelity amongst married couples springs up from double dating when they were in relationships.
He went on to warn single people to stop being unfaithful in their relationships because according to him, the habit you can’t put a stop to, during a relationship can’t be undone in marriage but will instead continue.
Taking to his twitter page, he wrote;
Double Dating is a Rehearsal to adultery in Marriage, anything you can’t stop in your singleness,you can’t stop when u’re married.
See screenshot of his tweet below
The tweet generated much reactions as his followers reacted well to it while some seem to disagree slightly admitted that it is not always true. Below are some comments
its the order of the day
Double dating ain’t a rehearsal to adultery in marriage, it isn’t just healthy for a mind willing to be successful. Will rather open another savings account than double date
Laycon Rep my Struggle replied
Before I was counting Double Dating as a sin but now. l dont think is a sin to double some girls did not deserve to be love, care for them.. double dating is not a big issue okay.. my brother, it is better to date many lady that to date one… Wise up.
Yet you notice this and go ahead and marry that person in the name of “they will change”
In most cases. But some actually change if they weigh the consequences of adultery. Marriage is an institution that requires a 100 concentration, and anything short of that leads to unprecedented ‘kasala’.That’s why some marriages never recover from infidelity. It’s very deep
you’re tagging the wrong guy
“A Nigerian Boyfriend Has More Responsibilities Than A Father Of Three In America” — Man Claims
A Nigeria male twitter influencer has caused stir on social media after he shared his opinion on what it takes to be a boyfriend in Nigeria.
The man identified with the username, MAKANAKI, claimed that a Nigerian man, who is in a relationship with a Nigerian girl, has more responsibilities more than a father with three kids in America.
“A Nigerian boyfriend has more responsibilities than a father of three in America”
See post below
His tweet generated some replies from twitter users. Below are a few replies
*You go pay babe bill
*You go buy take away for her friends wey dey chop like Kung Fu Panda
*You never marry her but her mama go dey tell you “you don’t even give me money is it when you marry my daughter you will give me money? ”
*You go give all 7 of her siblings money
The subtle truth in this sha 🤔 that’s how a friend said most Nigerian guys that go abroad complain about how they have seen a less financially tasking set of women but you never see Nigerian ladies go abroad & complain that they are treated worse in Nigeria 😅 I tweet in peace
I think most of us guys take up the responsibility of father figure or spending on our Girlfriends just to feed our Ego. “Something like she was nothing when I met her”
Makanaki…what is it..Truth be told That is y so many ladies ain’t married yet…. Cos the guy be wondering,if dating is this expensive..what will marriage look like Babes, mk una hustle o…so that guys no go dey use us as topic for their timeline
Because the Nigerian boyfriend is more shortsighted than an American boyfriend. He sees the relationship as an avenue to show his ego; acting as if the gf did not have anything or was not anything before he met her. So by forming father of responsibilities, he feeds the ego.
I swear down bruh. Money for hair, data, morning afternoon night food, money for Uber or Taxify, money for taking her friends out, money to buy clothes and accessories, omooooooooooo