A Nigerian man on popular micro-blogging platform, twitter has dished out his personal opinion about relationships.
The young man identified on twitter with the handle @Seed_Micheal has shared his opinion with his over 20k followers.
Michael, in one of his recent posts on twitter has advised young people to know the lifestyle of the person they have strong feelings for before jumping into a relationship.
According to Michael, he stated that for relationship to work better, friendship should come first to avoid unrealistic issues and difficult challenges. He further said that when someone starts a friendship first it will enable both parties to learn and understand each other and also both will have the chance to decide if they are perfect match or not because there will be no room for pretension, everything will be real, he said
Additionally, he said being friends first creates room for easy life, but putting relationship before friendship is not really good because it will definitely not going to flow well, there will be too much expectations, one will begin to expect more from the person.
As usual, his tweet instigated reactions from his followers
See their tweets/ reactions below;
@JeffersonOzorh; Sometimes you’re best off as friends with someone, just friends and nothing else. The moment you want more from each other, things go down south!
Always remember, life isn’t a straight jacket. It’s not a mathematics formula.
@amponsah_adade; It flowed effortlessly oo but the moment it entered relationship, church scattered.
@Samjnr64638100; The problem is simply that relationships requires a lot of commitment and sacrifices. “I called you several times you didn’t pick up” can have diametrically different reactions in a relationship vs friendship situation.
@CHURCHILL_HML; That’s to tell you that friendship, relationship(dating) and marriage are 3 different things that have common factors.. just because someone is your best friend doesn’t you guys will be the best in dating or relationship..
@helen_skillz; I repeat…. There are no rules to these things. Figure out what works for you and flow with the vibes.
Lady Whose Boyfriend Collected Back The Wig, Engagement Ring And Slippers He Gave Her After He Found Her On A Date With Another Man In A Mall Speaks (Video)
The lady whose was humiliated by her fiancé in a viral video has finally narrated her side of the story.
Recall less than a week ago, the lady was on a date with a man at Jabi Lake Mall when her fiancé walked up to where they were sitting, confronted her, then went on to forcefully pull the wig he bought her from her head, her slippers and her engagement ring and zoomed off. Read story HERE
In a new video the victim posted online, she disclosed that her man was wrong to collect all he gave her blaming it on annoyance but she debunked the claim that she was cheating on her fiancé.
She told Nigerians that they should stop labelling her a cheat because she was not caught in a compromising position.
She also appeal to people use the situation to put her into depression as she admitted that she now fully under why people commit suicide out of depression.
Watch the video below.