A lonely Nigerian lady has cried out on social media and is soliciting some candid advice concerning her present marital dilemma.
The lady (name withheld) is planning to end her 9-year-old marriage with her estranged husband who lives in far away, Russia and has refused to come back and see her.
The lady narrated how they got married and the last time she saw him was when he was travelling to Russia almost immediately after they got married, she said she only got to see him on Facebook and Whatsapp video calls.
She went on to reveal how she had miscarriage after she got pregnant the last time they met and she is fed up with the marriage due to loneliness.
She concluded that she is no longer getting younger and seriously thinking of remarrying but her parents are not supporting matters, they are instead insisting she stays in the marriage since she was the one who accepted his proposal.
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I am planning to end my marriage. I want to end it but I became afraid each time I thought of quitting.
I got married to a man living outside the country for 9 years now and since our traditional marriage and wedding he left me with his family and went back to Russia and since then he has not visited home again. He reaches me through phone calls, WhatsApp and Facebook. I became pregnant for him immediately after our marriage but latter had a miscarriage which claimed the baby and since then nothing again. I am tired of waiting and age is not on my side anymore Please, I need advice because many suitors are coming but because of the vow I took during our wedding I am afraid to accept another man and my parents are not helping matters at all, they said that I must wait for him since I was the one that accepted the marriage.
Please I need your candid advice😭😭😭
‘There’s An Average Of 20 Women To A Man, So Why Kill Yourself Over One That Refuses” — Man Explains Why Nowadays Men Don’t Have Patience To Persuade A Lady For Too Long
A Nigerian man has caused stir on social media after he shared his view on why men are no longer persuasive in their approach toward ladies they want for a relationship.
The Nigerian man identified as Enyinnaya Alex Aguomba, disclosed that there is an average of 20 women to a man, which nowadays men are now fully aware of the statistics, and that is why a modern-day Nigerian man will hardly plead for long with a girl to give him the chance to date her, instead he will move to the next girl and the next one till he gets one.
He also added that nowadays men are working hard to be rich, for according to him, when a man has money, he is entitled to many girls, who are ready to do everything possible to become his lover or wife.
A facebook user asked a question which reads;
‘Why Are men no longer persuasive in their friendship approach? Once she said “No”, men won’t disturb her again. Why??🙄’
‘With the population of women in the world today, each man can have at least 20 women(maybe in their 20s or Teens) that no one has ever touched or maybe dated before. So why kill yourself over one that refuses? Just work hard and make money they’ll flock around you while you choose.😄 Then leave your Dm open with a touch of ororo or any synthetic fluid and watch them slide👌🏾😂😂’
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