A young man is soliciting advice on a possible problem that may arise when he finally tie the knot with his girlfriend.
Instagram love doctor and relationship adviser, Joro Olomufin, shared the story on his page.
The man who chose to remain anonymous, said that he has dated his girlfriend for 5 years now but she doesn’t know he is gay and he doesn’t have the audacity to tell her because he doesn’t know how she will feel.
He revealed that though he treats his girlfriend right and provides for her everything that makes her comfortable, he is sexu*lly attracted to men.
He went on to say that he is emotionally attached to her but physically he’s not, but for him to be successful he needs to get married and he is sure that he can never cheat on her with another woman because of his preference for men.
He is asking for advice on the right steps to take.
Read his story
Good evening Joro,
I have been dating my gf for 5 years now but I never got the courage to tell her I’m g@y. I treat her like a queen, I buy her everything She want but my heart and soul is for men. I lost my an@l virginity in 2017 but I broke up with him because he got married. I was hurt, that’s a story for another day. I try not to be g@y but I prefer men to women, now i want to propose to my gf. I know I can give her children and a better life than any other man can give her.I will never cheat on her with a women. I will give her all she wants but my soul belongs to men. Joro, like check it, I am emotionally attached to her but physically am not. And for me to be successful I have to be married and maintain that family man front. I am really confused. I want to propose soon. I hope God guides me. I know God will want me to marry her, no other man can treat her like me. I have fasted and prayed about and I think marrying her is the best position. I just have cold feet
Marrying And Taking Your Wife Abroad Is Risky — Man Advises
A Nigerian man has opined that it is not recommendable for any married man or a man planning to get married to think of flying his wife abroad with him.
In a recent post on social media shared by a user, he noted that a man taking his wife to overseas after getting married is most likely to be an ugly decision for the man, because the woman may change her mind and file a divorce which will eventually favour her.
According to him, nobody should blame Nigerian men abroad, who refused to travel with their wives abroad, because they have a reason, he said the women may get there and decide to change their mind and dump them, causing the men to lose their families.
Taken to Facebook page, he wrote:
Marrying and taking your wife abroad is risky, what if she divorce you there?
I don’t blame men who base in abroad while their wives are here, They don’t want to loose their family!
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